I saw a film last night about sacrifice. Sacrificing the lives of a limited number of people in order to save an even greater number of people. President Obama also lifted the stem cell reseach ban which prevented human stem cells from being destroyed and researched for possible future organ growth. Again, sacrificing the lives of a limited number of people in order to save an even greater number. They both raised some interesting questions in my mind.
Why can’t we just have everything that we want, all the time? Why must there be a cost associated with such a great good as saving human lives? What other costs do we have with the good that we want for ourselves and our loved ones? Well, if we decide to get married, then we put away the complete freedom to to what we want with our time. We now have to share our time (among other things). The same things happens when we have a child, and another child, and another child. For every new relationship that is added into the family, there is a trade off of the kind of time that can be spent with other members of the family. For many people, having children is the goal of the marriage, but that same goal can end up poisoning the marriage, since the kind of time spent working on the marital relationship changes so drastically.
Time is limited. We cannot just add something new without subtracting something current, in most cases. Any changes that we make to our live will be adding or subtracting something. When we subtract something, usually we see the replacement as greater than what was subtracted. But, that doesn’t mean that thing that was subtracted is without value. In fact, it may be something of HUGE value. We just have to understand what is truly important to us on a core level and always work toward the greater good.
Be careful sacrificing things for others, it may not be your place to do so. Even so, we have to be willing to accept the consequences. Go on and see what your changes will cost, and if it is worth it.